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  • Why would I invest in a Matchmaking when there are so many free dating sites?
    Free dating apps are all around and if you have the time to sort through hundreds of profiles, and then go on endless go-no-where dates. The members of LOVERY however, understand the value of outsourcing the search and selection process to a professional, saving them time, frustration and money in the long run. Just like you would pay a financial planner for expert advice to manage your investments, our clients pay our matchmakers to help them manage their love life.
  • Why do people join a Matchmaking Service?
    There are five main reasons clients join matchmaking service. 1. They are successful, professional, private individuals who don’t want to put their personal information on the internet for the world to see and they value the private, discrete nature of a Matchmaking service. 2. They are frustrated with online dating and are tired of wasting time, energy and Friday nights chatting with people they will never meet, or going on dates with matches who lie, cheat and aren’t looking for a serious and committed relationship. 3. They have struggled with dating in the past, may have been single for years, and know that hiring a Matchmaker and Dating Coach will help them improve their dating and selection process to finally find a healthy and fulfilling relationship. 4. They are often divorced and after being out of the dating scene for years, sometimes decades, they don’t know where to start dating again, or what they are even looking for in a partner. 5. They are busy individuals who simply don’t have the time or opportunity to meet suitable singles yet still desire someone to share their life with.
  • What are the membership requirements?
    Membership with LOVERY is conditional upon being at least 18 years of age, single, looking for a committed, long-term relationship, above median household income, being free of criminal convictions and not living at the same address as a current or past partner.
  • How does the process work?
    After you have filled out your profile, we call you for a brief chat to set up a 60 minutes one-on-one in-person meeting. That’s when the search begins.  Within 1-2 weeks, we will be in contact with you with initial match options who are excited to meet you. We will only present to you the women who have said YES to meeting you. If you both agree to meet, we exchange contact information for you both. We then set up the date with time, place, and reservation – to ensure you have a great first date experience. After the date, we follow up with you to find out how it went. With post-date feedback in hand, we refine the search for your next match. If you both want to see each other again, you take it from there. 
  • How will I be matched?
    As a member, one of our Matchmakers will take you through the onboarding process. It is a combination questionnaire / interview process where we get to know you in detail. We want to deeply understand who would be an ideal partner for you so we can find you the best matches. Based on this information, we hand select every match. It is a combination of art, science and intuition developed over years of experience. After every date, you provide us with feedback so we can further refine our matching criteria until you find the one.
  • Will my profile and photos be available on your website?
    No, LOVERY is not an online dating site but an offline, personal dating and matchmaking service. No public dating profile will be created and your personalised profile will only be shared with your selected matches once you have agreed to do so. Even then, it is highly confidential and we do not disclose any identifying information upfront. You will have the possibility to review your profile and approve it before it is shared with anyone.
  • How much does it cost?
    We offer a combination of Matchmaking and Dating Coaching with various package possibilities. Every active member of LOVERY pays a Membership fee which covers the costs of the background check validation, questionnaires, the Date Ready Interview and active searching in our elite database of professional singles. The Private Membership fee is with special discounts offered.
  • What is a Concierge Service?
    Think of it like your own dating mentor. (Yup, we are your Will Smith from Hitch) We arrange all the dating logistics for your first dates, from making restaurant reservation, arranging cars and pick ups, to special services like Michelin fin dining arrangements or helicopter rides to Macau (or Paris if you wish) for a champagne brunch. Depending on your budget and interest, we can arrange everything for you.
  • Does LOVERY conduct background checks on members?
    Yes, at LOVERY your safety and security is important to us. One of the biggest complaints about online dating sites is that they are filled with scammers, cheaters and all sorts of violent, predatory and dysfunctional people. One of the reasons this happens is there are usually no background checks being conducted by these platforms. We believe that investing in your love life, and a matchmaker, should come with a level of safety and security beyond internet dating. This is a key benefit of the service we provide and we do our best to reduce the risks for you. We therefore conduct a basic background screening on all prospects and existing members which includes passport and residency, criminal record, debt collection and marital status.
  • Is Matchmaking not the same as online dating?
    Matchmaking is very different than online dating. It is a personalised service where we take the time to get to know every one of our members, what their partner preferences are and what they have to offer. We then handpick your matches for you after conducting a search, and screen a few dates for you. This process alone saves you enormous amounts of time which you can spend on dating, instead of swiping online or endless spend dating matches. Matchmaking is very personal, discrete, private and best of all effective!
  • What happens after the date? What if I didn’t like my date? What if I did?
    After the date, we follow up with you to find out how it went. With post-date feedback in hand, we refine the search for your next match. If you both want to see each other again, we will share your contact details allowing you to take it from there. As a general rule, we expect the man takes the lead and to call the lady to arrange the second date. If you didn’t like your date, we will happily provide them with your feedback so you don’t have to worry about letting them down easy. With our experience and sensitivity, we can convey your feedback in a way that will help them learn from the process and improve their chances for the future.
  • What if I had an amazing first date and want to ask the lady out at the end of the date?
    Of course you are absolutely free to make arrangements for a second date or share contact details as you wish. It is totally up to you and if it feels right go for it! However, many of our members like to take some time to think things over and then to use our service to share contact details after having a night to reflect and sleep on it.
  • Still have question?
    We all know, happy and stress-free people have a much better chance to find love. Please email us your concerns and doubts to Whatsapp +852 56459991 and we will do our best to assist you so you can be ready to fall in love again.
  • Am I the right candidate?
    Our offline matchmaking service is aimed to expedite your partner search by providing an in-depth personalized service, understanding your priorities, curating profiles and putting dedicated efforts to match you with your right one, with support from an expert by your side.
  • What is your service area?
    We provide global matchmaking services and our head office is located in Hong Kong.
  • How will the matchmaker help me?
    The matchmaker will be your mentor who will be involved to accelerate conversations, cope with stress and anxiety, gain feedback and bring you closer to your partner search process.
  • Do you offer online dating service/consultation appointment?
    Unfortunately, we don't. We hand-select the perfect match for our members and meet the prospects in person to ensure all of our members are vetted and background-checked.
  • How does it work?
    1. Fill the online form and you will be in touch from our team during office hours 2. You will be arranged to meet with one of our matchmakers at your connivence 3. Get hand-picked matches- Discuss your preferences, and get access to specially curated profiles through a matchmaker 4. Shortlist profiles- Select profiles that suit your preferences 5. Introductory call- Get ready for your first call with the profiles shortlisted by you
  • Why would I invest in a Matchmaking when there are so many free dating sites?
    Free dating apps are all around and if you have the time to sort through hundreds of profiles, and then go on endless go-no-where dates. The members of LOVERY however, understand the value of outsourcing the search and selection process to a professional, saving them time, frustration and money in the long run. Just like you would pay a financial planner for expert advice to manage your investments, our clients pay our matchmakers to help them manage their love life.
  • Why do people join a Matchmaking Service?
    There are five main reasons clients join matchmaking service. 1. They are successful, professional, private individuals who don’t want to put their personal information on the internet for the world to see and they value the private, discrete nature of a Matchmaking service. 2. They are frustrated with online dating and are tired of wasting time, energy and Friday nights chatting with people they will never meet, or going on dates with matches who lie, cheat and aren’t looking for a serious and committed relationship. 3. They have struggled with dating in the past, may have been single for years, and know that hiring a Matchmaker and Dating Coach will help them improve their dating and selection process to finally find a healthy and fulfilling relationship. 4. They are often divorced and after being out of the dating scene for years, sometimes decades, they don’t know where to start dating again, or what they are even looking for in a partner. 5. They are busy individuals who simply don’t have the time or opportunity to meet suitable singles yet still desire someone to share their life with.
  • What are the membership requirements?
    Membership with LOVERY is conditional upon being at least 18 years of age, single, looking for a committed, long-term relationship, above median household income, being free of criminal convictions and not living at the same address as a current or past partner.
  • How does the process work?
    After you have filled out your profile, we call you for a brief chat to set up a 60 minutes one-on-one in-person meeting. That’s when the search begins.  Within 1-2 weeks, we will be in contact with you with initial match options who are excited to meet you. We will only present to you the women who have said YES to meeting you. If you both agree to meet, we exchange contact information for you both. We then set up the date with time, place, and reservation – to ensure you have a great first date experience. After the date, we follow up with you to find out how it went. With post-date feedback in hand, we refine the search for your next match. If you both want to see each other again, you take it from there. 
  • How will I be matched?
    As a member, one of our Matchmakers will take you through the onboarding process. It is a combination questionnaire / interview process where we get to know you in detail. We want to deeply understand who would be an ideal partner for you so we can find you the best matches. Based on this information, we hand select every match. It is a combination of art, science and intuition developed over years of experience. After every date, you provide us with feedback so we can further refine our matching criteria until you find the one.
  • Will my profile and photos be available on your website?
    No, LOVERY is not an online dating site but an offline, personal dating and matchmaking service. No public dating profile will be created and your personalised profile will only be shared with your selected matches once you have agreed to do so. Even then, it is highly confidential and we do not disclose any identifying information upfront. You will have the possibility to review your profile and approve it before it is shared with anyone.
  • How much does it cost?
    We offer a combination of Matchmaking and Dating Coaching with various package possibilities. Every active member of LOVERY pays a Membership fee which covers the costs of the background check validation, questionnaires, the Date Ready Interview and active searching in our elite database of professional singles. The Private Membership fee is with special discounts offered.
  • What is a Concierge Service?
    Think of it like your own dating mentor. (Yup, we are your Will Smith from Hitch) We arrange all the dating logistics for your first dates, from making restaurant reservation, arranging cars and pick ups, to special services like Michelin fin dining arrangements or helicopter rides to Macau (or Paris if you wish) for a champagne brunch. Depending on your budget and interest, we can arrange everything for you.
  • Does LOVERY conduct background checks on members?
    Yes, at LOVERY your safety and security is important to us. One of the biggest complaints about online dating sites is that they are filled with scammers, cheaters and all sorts of violent, predatory and dysfunctional people. One of the reasons this happens is there are usually no background checks being conducted by these platforms. We believe that investing in your love life, and a matchmaker, should come with a level of safety and security beyond internet dating. This is a key benefit of the service we provide and we do our best to reduce the risks for you. We therefore conduct a basic background screening on all prospects and existing members which includes passport and residency, criminal record, debt collection and marital status.
  • Is Matchmaking not the same as online dating?
    Matchmaking is very different than online dating. It is a personalised service where we take the time to get to know every one of our members, what their partner preferences are and what they have to offer. We then handpick your matches for you after conducting a search, and screen a few dates for you. This process alone saves you enormous amounts of time which you can spend on dating, instead of swiping online or endless spend dating matches. Matchmaking is very personal, discrete, private and best of all effective!
  • What happens after the date? What if I didn’t like my date? What if I did?
    After the date, we follow up with you to find out how it went. With post-date feedback in hand, we refine the search for your next match. If you both want to see each other again, we will share your contact details allowing you to take it from there. As a general rule, we expect the man takes the lead and to call the lady to arrange the second date. If you didn’t like your date, we will happily provide them with your feedback so you don’t have to worry about letting them down easy. With our experience and sensitivity, we can convey your feedback in a way that will help them learn from the process and improve their chances for the future.
  • What if I had an amazing first date and want to ask the lady out at the end of the date?
    Of course you are absolutely free to make arrangements for a second date or share contact details as you wish. It is totally up to you and if it feels right go for it! However, many of our members like to take some time to think things over and then to use our service to share contact details after having a night to reflect and sleep on it.
  • Still have question?
    We all know, happy and stress-free people have a much better chance to find love. Please email us your concerns and doubts to Whatsapp +852 56459991 and we will do our best to assist you so you can be ready to fall in love again.
  • Am I the right candidate?
    Our offline matchmaking service is aimed to expedite your partner search by providing an in-depth personalized service, understanding your priorities, curating profiles and putting dedicated efforts to match you with your right one, with support from an expert by your side.
  • What is your service area?
    We provide global matchmaking services and our head office is located in Hong Kong.
  • How will the matchmaker help me?
    The matchmaker will be your mentor who will be involved to accelerate conversations, cope with stress and anxiety, gain feedback and bring you closer to your partner search process.
  • Do you offer online dating service/consultation appointment?
    Unfortunately, we don't. We hand-select the perfect match for our members and meet the prospects in person to ensure all of our members are vetted and background-checked.
  • How does it work?
    1. Fill the online form and you will be in touch from our team during office hours 2. You will be arranged to meet with one of our matchmakers at your connivence 3. Get hand-picked matches- Discuss your preferences, and get access to specially curated profiles through a matchmaker 4. Shortlist profiles- Select profiles that suit your preferences 5. Introductory call- Get ready for your first call with the profiles shortlisted by you
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